Darkness nevers asks for the light because the light is there anyway.
Darkness can not exist without the light,because nothing can exist
in the void !
Light knows what darkness is.
Darkness has no idea what the light is.
In the light you can see as far as you can !
In the darkness you can not see much further from your nose !
Or..you can not see either yourself or anybody else.
Finally you are not destroying or try to destroy anybody with love.
You try to destroy somebody because of hate .